Teens Advice

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Tue, 28 May 2013 13:55:47 -0400

Hello so I have a crush on my best friend. We always tease and flirt with each other. He told me he doesn't want to date anyone but everyone else tells me that he likes me. I really want to be his girlfriend and I'm pretty sure he wants to be my boyfriend.

Sat, 25 May 2013 15:05:10 -0400

Does he know you like him? I think you should tell him and go from there :)

~xox Miranda

My parents keep fighting, my home life sucks, at school I feel in wanted and like my best friend and I are fighting my crush never talks to me and I have no one to talk to I have so many friends too and I may be moving soon and right now life just sucks

Tue, 07 May 2013 19:53:07 -0400

I understand all of those feelings. The best thing you can do, is try to make things easy on your parents at home to reduce anxiety for them and it will help their relationship. As far as your friend, if you really want your friendship back just tell her you want to make up because you really need her. If she loves you she’ll understand. Crushes come and go so it’s alright. Don’t worry about the move keep a positive attitude and everything will go fine. -Briana

It really hurts that my crush never talks to me I really just want to start a friendship but its so hard talking to him.

Tue, 07 May 2013 19:08:04 -0400

You have to talk to him! Little baby steps!

-Briana

There is this guy who I thought liked me back and he said he did so we became closer but not dating or anything and then he just left me hanging and kinda like he stopped liking me but put on this act. I'm really pissed off with him but I still kinda like him I don't know what to do.

Mon, 06 May 2013 20:30:24 -0400

Honestly if he pissed you off then i would probably just forget about him! Don’t let him waste your time! Move on and find someone better :)
<3
~xox Miranda

I'm really jeleous of other girls like how they look and dress and their talents and its really frusterating just having to be me with nothing good

Mon, 06 May 2013 20:28:56 -0400

I’m sure there are many good things about you! You’re beautiful :) Just stay positive girl! I’m here for you <3

~xox Miranda

My friend is complaining to other people that she's annoyed with me and she had told me she is annoyed with me but isn't telling me why! It's really pissing me off

Mon, 06 May 2013 20:28:00 -0400

I’m sorry! The best thing to do is to talk to her, which it seems like you have tried. So when you 2 are hanging out just casually bring it up and be like “I have a serious question to ask” and just ask her why she’s annoyed with you! I hope everything is ok!
~Miranda

If you want to be bold, bring it up on the spot. When she makes a comment in front of people. Say “Why exactly, because I have a problem with you too if you’re talking about how annoying I am?” and she’ll either start talking or start walking. -Briana

There is this guy who I hardly talk to but I've like for over 2 years. Recently I'm starting to care alot what my really close guy friend thinks of me and everytime he touches my hand I get butterflies. But at the end of the day I like the other guy way more than him but I'm really confused on my own thoughts. I almost feel as if I'm avoiding liking. Friend because I know it will never happen but I really really like the other guy who I barely talk to ahh😦

Mon, 06 May 2013 20:05:16 -0400

Awh well it sounds like you have feelings for both! If you really like the other guy that you don’t talk to much, try to talk to him and become friends with him so you can hang out and see if you really like him! :)
~xox Miranda

Is it weird if I like a guy a year younger than me?? I almost think I do and be completely honest.

Mon, 06 May 2013 20:04:02 -0400

Not at all! A year is not a big difference, especially if he is mature for his age!

~Miranda

There is a guy that I really like and I have no idea how to talk to him I don't have many social networking sites so we can't really talk online but we could text just we don't have eachothers number.i want to try and talk to him during school but don't really have the right timing to do you think it would be weird if I just said hi to him while walking in the halls although we don't really talk often.

Mon, 06 May 2013 16:20:06 -0400

I would deff start off by saying hi to him in the halls! What’s the worst that could happen? Hopefully you can start talking and become friends and will get his number :)

~xox Miranda

I'm a 14 year old girl and am not allowed to shave my arms. Nor bleach or wax. I have dark hair on light skin so it's very easily noticed. I'm very self conscious about wearing short sleeves I'm allowed to remove hair from my legs but no arms, Is there any way I can feel less self conscious or get rid of that hair?

Wed, 01 May 2013 15:59:52 -0400

Well if you can’t get rid of the hair, try to distract yourself from it. Get something cute to highlight your arms so you won’t be thinking about it. Get a new watch or some cute bracelets. If it makes you feel any better no one probably notices. -Briana

I have this super huge crush on a guy and we don't have any classes together but we have had very little conversations together but mostly in groups not really together. This may be my last year with him and I want to talk to him, I don't have Facebook but I do have a phone and was wondering how do I even get him to get my number so we can text or how can we somehow talk easily without anything being awkward ?

Wed, 01 May 2013 15:58:34 -0400

well, you could invite all of the people that you talk to a lot to go hang out in a group chat on your phone and ask for his number so you can include it in the group chat. That’s how everyone in my school gets each other’s number. It won’t be awkward if you have something to talk about. Don’t just say hey. Ask a question and keep the conversation going. Good Luck! -Briana

my best guy friend admitted that he likes me. i'm not sure about my feelings for him. but one thing i know for sure is that he's a great guy. i told him that we should stay friends. we sit next to each other in the classes we have together. and he doesn't talk to me the same way as before. what should i do? i want to give him a chance but i don't know how.

Tue, 30 Apr 2013 17:06:02 -0400

If you just want to give him a chance, but you’re not sure of your feelings you can a) tell him that. or b)keep things the way they are. Just tell him exactly how you’re feeling.

-Briana

i want a baby and now. they're the only things in the world that make me happy. I can always smile around a baby. I want one so badly and I know I'd be a great mom. im 16

Mon, 29 Apr 2013 18:13:49 -0400

Honestly I don’t think it is worth it to have a baby at such a young age. It’s not healthy, and it will ruin your life. You won’t be able to experience college and live your life and have experiences that most people have. There are other things that can make you happy. Just because you are happy around babies doesn’t mean you will be happy having your own baby at 16. I can’t tell you what to do but if I were you I would wait. Think about the future!

~xox Miranda

I was just weighed for the first time in a few months and I'm 195. But the thing is, I don't look almost 200 pounds. Even if I don't look that big I FEEL that big. I hate trying on clothes, I hate wearing swim suits and I hate wearing skirts. I literally have no more confidence in myself. What could I do to gain my confidence back and loose the weight so I love myself in my own body?

Mon, 29 Apr 2013 17:03:57 -0400

Weight is only a number, don’t let it scare you too much! It all depends on your height, so if you are tall you are going to weigh more! Don’t let your weight bring down your confidence though, tell yourself you are beautiful and say 3 things you love about yourself to yourself each day! To lose the weight, first thing is to be committed by eating healthy consistantly (watch your portions and control yourself) and to work out and get fit! :) Best of luck to you, gorgeous!

~Miranda xox

I'm a 16 year old male. I have anxiety issues that make relationships very difficult, but at the same time I really want one. I'm scared to talk to most girls as anything more than friends and I feel like most girls think I'm really odd. What should I do?

Sun, 28 Apr 2013 18:28:15 -0400

Dont think that! I’m sure girls don’t think you are odd, especially if they are your friends! Just try to put your anxiety issues aside and branch out a little more. That girl you like? Talk to her! Nothing will happen unless you try! I know the feeling of wanting to be in a relationship, im almost 16 and never had one. But, you have to do something about it and just be yourself with that special someone. Don’t worry, the time will come :)

If you ever need someone to talk to don’t hesitate to message me on my personal (fameinmylife) I’m here to help :)

~Miranda xox

So I soon will have to move like 6 hours away from my school and will miss everyone and the problem is I have this super huge crush and hadn't ever really talked to him I want to become friends at least wih him before the end of this year but I don't know how to please help me

Fri, 26 Apr 2013 19:59:05 -0400

Just talk to him! If he’s in one of your classes, talk to him one day! If not, message him on facebook and see what happens! Be brave :) You don’t know what will happen unless you try!

~Miranda :)

okay so the two things I want to do more than anything in the world is be a mom, and be in the military and travel all over the world and help people. How can i do both??

Fri, 26 Apr 2013 19:58:02 -0400

People do that all the time! You can always go into the military first and then have a child, that is the safest way and you can spend time with your baby since you wont have to run away with the military! :)

~Miranda

I recently got weighed for a pre-physical and I found out I gained 20 pounds since last year. I was so upset with myself I didn't eat for two days. I just really need too loose the weight I gained. I'm not happy with myself at all. I need some help before I do something I regret.

Sun, 14 Apr 2013 22:25:57 -0400

I’m assuming you’re still a teenager, you’re growing and your weight fluctuates A LOT! my weight can be 5 pounds higher one week than another. Don’t get so stressed. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to lose a little weight, but gaining weight is normal. I am 14 pounds heavier than last year, and I look thinner. I promise you if you didn’t notice it until you stepped on the scale nothing is wrong. -Briana I love you and you should love you too!

Today I was sitting with my crush and another guy. The other guy and I are friends and always joke around which could easily be mistaken as flirting. I was talking to the other guy and my crush asks me why i'm even there and I should just leave because why am I sitting there with a guy I "hate" (the other guy and I always pretend argue). My crush suddenly just turns into this jerk and starts mimicking me and making fun of me not in a playful way. Why would he suddenly turn in a jerk? Jealousy?

Fri, 12 Apr 2013 17:10:22 -0400

Probably jealousy, but he seems like he was being a jerk. -briana